Why We Exist: The Counsel Clouds Thesis
- Phillip Clare
- Dec 3
- 4 min read
Updated: Dec 4

The Emotional Landscape of Modern Students
In schools today, Gen Z and Gen Alpha form a curious and highly capable cohort. They have abandoned the Millennial playbook with its anxiety about pleasing authority and curating a flawless public image, and replaced it with greater self-expression. Yet their digital upbringing and technology-saturated learning environments have also produced a generation that is more anxious, easily distracted, and less resilient than ever.
While some students benefit from the community and educational opportunities that social media can offer, most remain unaware of how deeply these platforms shape their daily lives. The pressure to perform, relentless comparison, being permanently switched on, and systems that make things easier for you create a cultural climate where young people are constantly connecting but rarely fully connected.
At the heart of these challenges is something so often overlooked:
Most students don’t understand how they feel, and they haven’t been given the skills to know why this is important.
This is a generation that doesn’t understand that they need to create space in their lives to pause, understand their emotions, and process them. It’s much easier to get a quick tech-dopamine hit than to examine your feelings and thoughts.
So, what’s the outcome of this?
We are regularly seeing students who struggle with:
understanding their emotions
the literacy to express them
the awareness to recognise their physical impact
and the tools to do anything about them
The Counsel Clouds Solution
At Counsel Clouds, we believe emotional well-being starts long before coping strategies. It begins before speaking to a trusted adult, before seeing a counsellor. In fact, none of those things will likely ever occur unless there is clarity around the most straightforward, most fundamental question:
“How are you feeling, really?”
Helping students answer that question, honestly, safely, and with growing confidence, is the foundation of everything we build. It is also the first step for a young person to create a series of healthy habits and make better choices.
Beyond Crisis Response
Many schools are doing their best to respond to growing emotional needs. Counsellors, pastoral teams, and teachers offer support between lessons, given their busy and often stretched school schedules. Much of the current approach to student wellbeing remains reactive, stepping in when things have already begun to unravel or decline. It can be tokenistic, so we see many well-meaning one-off assemblies, seminars, and lessons added to target a specific subject, which are never revisited. Research shows that this approach can create adverse outcomes, not just for learning but also for mental health.
At Counsel Clouds, we believe in helping schools move from a culture of crisis response to proactive culture building. Well-being cannot be an “add-on” when time allows; it must be part of the community's routine. In the same way physical health is built through consistent habits, emotional health grows through repeated small, intentional moments of awareness and reflection.
What We’ve Learned
Our team has spent decades working in education, psychology, and school-based counselling. We’ve sat in classrooms, therapy rooms, and student meetings, parent meetings, and dealt with the vast spectrum of psychological trauma, emotional complexity and the difficulties they cause in young lives.
What stands out most is the impact of small, consistent intervention. So we’ve learned from that and built Counsel Clouds. A simple, accessible routine that helps students develop healthy emotional habits.
From our experience, emotional literacy is something you learn. You’re not born with it. When students feel equipped to name and normalise emotions, they can begin to understand what is valid and manageable and start the journey of making healthy choices.
Our Philosophy
Rupert and Phil founded Counsel Clouds after realising that most students struggle to recognise, articulate or understand how they feel. Without this skill set, accessing the support they need can be hard.
Counsel Clouds exists to close that skill gap, offering schools structured, accessible tools that help students understand their emotions and build healthier habits.
Schools That See the Whole Child
Counsel Clouds is for schools that believe well-being is not an optional extra. We’re an excellent fit for schools that have a holistic approach to education, which look beyond exam results or university placements, and understand that a child’s emotional world shapes their capacity to grow.
Whether you’re an international school or a local comprehensive, big or small, if you’re striving to build a stronger pastoral framework, our approach helps you make wellbeing both sustainable and meaningful.
Pastoral Teams Ready to Go Further
Pastoral teams often find their time absorbed by the urgent issues that arise day to day. This constant demand leaves little time to build the structures and resources needed for long-term change. Counsel Clouds is designed to shift that pattern.
We work with pastoral and safeguarding leads, counsellors, and wellbeing coordinators who are deeply committed to their students, but who need tools that match the scale of the challenge. By providing structured, accessible wellbeing content, we help staff move from fire-fighting to culture-building.
Our tutor resources set the tone for the week and open meaningful conversations that flow naturally into our audio courses. This allows schools to embed emotional literacy and self-awareness into the daily rhythm of school life, without adding pressure to staff or stretching their capacity.
Teachers Who Want to Help, But Don’t Know Where to Start
Teachers are often the first to notice when a student is struggling, but most aren’t trained to know what to say next.
Counsel Clouds gives teachers a simple entry point for guided conversations, tutor prompts, and language that makes emotional check-ins feel natural and safe. These tools help staff easily signpost support.
Leaders Looking for Scalable Impact
For school leaders, the importance of wellbeing is evident; the challenge is embedding it consistently across hundreds of students and staff.
Our platform is designed to scale with your school. One subscription gives your entire community access to guided, evidence-informed wellbeing content. This ensures reliable support for every member of your school, from the student struggling quietly to the teacher holding everything together.
We help make wellbeing a shared responsibility, not the burden of a single department.



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